aha, I better see your point now - not letting the guy hanging in mid air is indeed thoughtful (to say the least)

Oh, and don’t worry: I do get what I want from real women (well, from one real woman, anyway). It’s just the “jumping into intimate-and-not-necessarily-widespread practices without any previous intimacy” that makes me blush.

That and my shameless flirting, of course.

More on the Why we’re good topic: of course not finishing too soon is good (nice guys come last because they make sure everybody else came too), but I wouldn’t say the marathon is necessarily or always the best option. Nothing like a good quickie that won’t even let you undo your bra before you roll your eyes and hold your breath, right?
Honestly, I’ve been giving it some thought and I can’t pinpoint why I’m good (assuming, as I do, that I am). You’ll have to tell me yourself (...I’m amazed nobody did this one before me).