Ok..
First you gotta be logged in..
The goto the top of the page you are looking at...any page...this page even…
Just off centre and towards the right of the screen you will see “Private Messages’ written in blue…
Click that and it will take you the PM console…
Here you can PM any member you like...you can even configure the PMs to send you an email when you get a new PM back in the ‘Control Panel’
I get the same message about emails...don’t worry about it...use the PMs instead…
I’ll send you a PM and when you look at the top, next to the ‘Private Message’ you’ll see you got 1 unread PM
Also if you look under a members avatar / picture you will see ‘Profile’ and then ‘PM’
Click that and it will let you PM that particular member
Come back to me if you can’t see it…
DB