Indeed. My dad died in 94 - I used to work with him for 12 hours most days so it was an awful shock. I still ocassionally dream about being at work with him then when I wake up get a real pang of disappointment :(

Cheers,
SD

SD..

I still dream about my dad in totally normal situations…

I dream about me and him just sitting there watching the TV...or mending my car…

Totally normal shit...and it feels normal...even tho’ in my dream i know he is dead...but me and him are doing the usual stuff…

I had a dream where he was giving me a right ol’ bollockin’ for not giving my son enough fruit...and i was explaining to him that i did...But it felt ‘right’…

I dunno…

The sub-conscious is a powerful thing…

DB

PS…

It’s good to see some of you ‘Front Page’ guys posting here…

We talk about all kinda things on the forum…

Language is no problem....

All are welcome and understood on TC…

TC has many people who can translate!

DB

I didn’t even know the site had a forum. What an idiot. Well I’m on leave for a good couple of weeks so I’ll be scanning through here regularly.

I live in a different country to my dad.  Hes a good bloke, we get on well, we just never have anything to say to each other.

If anyone wants a man hug, come over here and stand in a nice orderly queue.

^^^ Me First! Me First!

De_Bunk - 12 September 2007 10:18 PM

I wanted to ask him about something...and in an instant i realised he has been dead for 10yrs…

But i still reached for the telephone...in that instant second...It hit me…

I miss him…

Give your dad a hug...tell him you love him…

Thats all…

Sorry for the ‘downer’ post…

DB

Nice post dude.

I get on well with my Dad.

We are interested in similar things, like motorbikes. We go Touring together. I love it, & so does he.

We got a 2000km trip planned for later on this year down south through the forest of Pemberton, I cant wait!

Thats one of the things we do together that I can look back on in 20 years time & be happy that I did that with my Dad.

Im only 25 & He’s 57. So hopefully he’ll be around for a LONG time yet.

c1arky - 13 September 2007 12:20 PM

I didn’t even know the site had a forum. What an idiot. Well I’m on leave for a good couple of weeks so I’ll be scanning through here regularly.

You got it Dude!

I also get along really well with my dad even though ive been living in the UK for the last 3 years and he lives in South Africa, so i only see him once a year. Sadly though my twin brother had a fall out with my parents more so my dad than my mom and now they arent on speaking terms, its complicated and ive tried many times to get them talking again. I just know that one day when our dad passes away he’ll regret being so stubborn and not making amends with him.

b6

b6nd1t - 13 September 2007 02:26 PM

I also get along really well with my dad even though ive been living in the UK for the last 3 years and he lives in South Africa, so i only see him once a year. Sadly though my twin brother had a fall out with my parents more so my dad than my mom and now they arent on speaking terms, its complicated and ive tried many times to get them talking again. I just know that one day when our dad passes away he’ll regret being so stubborn and not making amends with him.

b6

Oh thats too bad B6, yea he will regret it later on.
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Just to change the subject, B6 your South African? Do you have that SA Accent like off Lethal Weapon 2 & blood Diamonds? I love that accent!

But, But, your Bleck!?

Sorry, just my fav accent in the world.

There are 2 diff type accents inst there? A more posh version & the one off LW2?

We have some friends from SA, but they dont have that accent Im thinking of, they sound more posh english.

Yup got the South African accent but not as bad as the LW2 more like the blood diamond…

I always remember the line Leonardo di Caprio has in the film…

“score me a light bru”

Its the office joke to walk around saying “Diplomatic immunity” from LW2…

b6

HAHAHAHA OH SWEET!!!!

DIPLOMATIC IMMUNITY!!...............BANG! in the head.

I love that Movie! I’ll have to watch it again.

& Leonardo di Caprio did the accent very well I thought, but You’d know.

Your even Cooler now B6 with an accent like that!

Yeah but Caprio was actually supposed to be a Zimbabwean who went to South Africa…

He still did it well though…

In my opinion the best South African accent is done by Daniel Craig in Munich…

b6

Ah rite, well I havnt seen that movie. Ive heard its boring. Oh well.

& another thing, how do you pronounce your user name? With the number’s I dont know, is it just Bendit? Thats how I think of it anyway.

You pronounce it bandit…

Got it from one of my all time favourite movies…

Smokey and the Bandit…

b6